Comments on: Divorce Stories | This Heart Wrenching Divorce Story Spans Years! http://www.adamsweddingdress.com/2009/07/01/divorce-stories-single-parent/ Divorce Stories and Divorce Support for the Modern World Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:44:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Daniella http://www.adamsweddingdress.com/2009/07/01/divorce-stories-single-parent/comment-page-1/#comment-294 Daniella Wed, 01 Jul 2009 18:58:12 +0000 http://www.adamsweddingdress.com/?p=1330#comment-294 Ok – chilling. Your story set me back 6yrs, vividly. I’ll never forget the day I confronted my ex, “You’re fxxxin CRAZY, CRAZY!!!” He literally shouted in my face after he came home the night before w/lipstick on his white collared shirt and a hickey on his neck (I must add that I took care of my ex’s needs even while pregnant only he was taking care of his mistress’ at the same time. Funny, it never occurred to me to use a condom with my husband). My bad, I must be crazy. My marriage, towards the end, was based on lies. My MARRIAGE. Sort of reminds me of the times I’ve been held up. It wasn’t about the tangible things that were stolen nor the happier times our marriage possessed. It is about the freedom for which I have been robbed; the freedom to get in my car or walk down any street without feeling that at any moment a .38 is gonna be shoved between my eyes. It’s about being robbed of my freedom to love and trust others naturally as I did before I fell prey to deceit. I feel ya Robby. And, I too am a parent of one amazing daughter! I’m also a firm believer and a product of my belief that the strong prevail through adversity. I do hope you’ve found happiness and peace of mind. Thank you for sharing your story, takes courage. And I know your son is probably sooo proud of his Dad! Always, Daniella Ok – chilling. Your story set me back 6yrs, vividly. I’ll never forget the day I confronted my ex, “You’re fxxxin CRAZY, CRAZY!!!” He literally shouted in my face after he came home the night before w/lipstick on his white collared shirt and a hickey on his neck (I must add that I took care of my ex’s needs even while pregnant only he was taking care of his mistress’ at the same time. Funny, it never occurred to me to use a condom with my husband). My bad, I must be crazy.

My marriage, towards the end, was based on lies. My MARRIAGE. Sort of reminds me of the times I’ve been held up. It wasn’t about the tangible things that were stolen nor the happier times our marriage possessed. It is about the freedom for which I have been robbed; the freedom to get in my car or walk down any street without feeling that at any moment a .38 is gonna be shoved between my eyes. It’s about being robbed of my freedom to love and trust others naturally as I did before I fell prey to deceit.

I feel ya Robby. And, I too am a parent of one amazing daughter! I’m also a firm believer and a product of my belief that the strong prevail through adversity. I do hope you’ve found happiness and peace of mind. Thank you for sharing your story, takes courage. And I know your son is probably sooo proud of his Dad!

Always,
Daniella

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